Advancing Menstrual Health in Rural Sasna
From ignorance to awareness, Gopal’s journey began when his wife Sheela’s silent struggles with menstrual health prompted him to attend a transformative MHHM workshop that reshaped his understanding and strengthened his relationship with his wife and daughter.
Gopal and Sheela’s story unfolds in the small village in Sasna, Farakhpur Block, Uttar Pradesh where Gopal earned a living as a mason. For years, Gopal, like many men, was largely oblivious to the difficulties his wife endured each month during her menstruation. As a mother of five, Sheela silently dealt with the difficulties of menstruation, relying on rags as absorbents that compromised her health.
One day, Sheela had the opportunity to attend a workshop on Menstrual Hygiene and Health Management (MHHM) conducted by MHM Sakhis and local community workers. Unfortunately, a bout of ill health prevented her from participating further in the sessions. Understanding the importance of the subject, Sheela urged Gopal to step in for her and attend the men’s module. Although he was initially reluctant and unsure of what he could learn, Gopal eventually agreed and participated in the session.
Through these sessions, Gopal learned about the reproductive system, menstrual cycle and the importance of hygiene during menstruation. The discussions dispelled long-held myths and equipped him and other participants with the knowledge to provide better support to their partners. For Gopal, this was a transformative experience. He started taking an active role in household chores during Sheela’s periods, making sure that she could rest and recuperate. He also encouraged their children to contribute.
Gopal learned about the unhygienic materials Sheela had been using, which putting her at risk of infections. This revelation left him feeling anxious and determined to make a difference. He purchased reusable cloth pads, which were safer and more comfortable for Sheela and his daughter. Recognising the importance of sanitation in their overall health, Gopal also took the initiative to build a proper toilet in his house for his wife and daughter. When a community worker returned for a follow-up visit months later, Sheela shared her positive experience with the new pads, describing how they had turned a once-challenging experience into a liberating journey and allowed her to embrace each month with renewed confidence. These simple yet meaningful actions not only eased Sheela’s burden but also strengthened her bond with her husband, opening up a new line of communication and mutual respect between them.
This story has been taken from the Tata Trusts' Annual Report 2023-24.
